The interviews in my book  are with real moms and dads in diverse circumstances including high conflict, collaboration, substance abuse, and special needs children. The mothers and fathers make choices, sometimes struggle, and often grow. Their stories offer insights into wise decision-making, as well as practical strategies that strengthen families.

While pain exists in most stories, there is also hope. Co-parents often feel that they have become more confident and compassionate, and parent better than before. Their growth and their childrens’ are the silver lining in the dark pain of divorce.

Testimonials

Thank you so much for your guidance and support. I continue to refer to the book on a regular basis. Things are going pretty well, definitely into a new chapter, with lots of promise and just a bit of loneliness, but I am a happier parent, more engaged and present than I have ever been, so that makes it tough to feel lonely for long!

Brenda T, co-parent
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This book shines brighter than many others in the category of parenting and divorce, in large part because the author does not claim to present “the one, true way” to do things. The author offers insights from a wide range of real stories from parents committed to co-parenting through separation and divorce, each with different circumstances and paths to navigate. We learn from a variety of experiences.

I was interviewed for this book and my story is in there—disguised well, I might add. As I read my story on the page, I was struck by how perceptively Karen Kristjanson identified and captured my pivotal moments, all drawn from a long and rambling interview. It is evident that she listens deeply and writes with wisdom.

What makes this book a rare and valuable contribution is the way the author has put all these disparate stories together and created an accessible, coherent whole, with useful tips and insights…this is the kind of book I wish I had had when I was grappling with these issues. It deserves a wide audience.

Sharon K, co–parent